Wow. I do not know where the summer has gone! Cian had his first birthday in July and now he is 14 months old. We also got to take a trip back to the Northwest to visit all the grandparents and aunts and uncles at the end of July/beginning of August which was wonderful. Cian got to go to the Oregon Coast for the first time and spend a day at the Oregon Zoo! (Such an really great zoo!) He also got to go on his first camping trip this summer. We went with our good friends Anna and Steve to the Mirror Lake Recreational Area in the Wasatch National Forest here in Utah.
Cian runs most everywhere and climbs on anything he can. He is attempting to talk as well. He babbles constantly. I think that he has invented his own language. A lot of the things he says are very consistent. For instance, he will use the same sound combinations whenever he would like a cup of milk — it just doesn’t sound anything like English!
Some of his words are remarkably similar to their “adult speak” counterparts. He says “Uh-Dye” for “Outside,” “Peezh” for “Please,” and “Duh-bi-duh-bi-duh” for “Banana.”
Now we are at the end of summer. It has already snowed here in Salt Lake City. It didn’t stick – but did snow on the last day of September. We have been enjoying the chilly and clear weather for the past few days. I have been digging through the closets and boxes finding all of our colder-weather clothing. Cian was really not wild about the fact that I started making him wear clothes every day. But he is actually getting used to it (the lower temperatures help, I’m sure). He is learning that to go outside we now put on coats and shoes. Today he actually came and sat in my lap to get his shoes on instead of running away! It has been really funny watching him learn to walk while wearing shoes. He is still getting used to it. Before he just wore soft soled shoes, so now he is learning what to do with thick, stiff soles. He trips over them quite a bit still.
One slightly distressing newer development is that Cian is going through a very severe phase of separation anxiety. He has always been a rather clingy child, but now Kevin and I can’t even go into another room of the house and close the door without Cian panicking. Cian can be at the back of the house, with noisy toys going and somehow hear the front door close – no matter how softly. He will throw himself at the door and wail as if you are never coming back. Poor kid. I hope for everyone’s sake he develops his concept of “object permanence” sooner rather than later! (For those not versed in child development lingo that is the stage where they understand that just because they can’t see it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist anymore…so they can understand that Mom didn’t disappear from the universe simply because they can’t see her)
A few weeks ago Cian decided to boycott any food that was offered to him on a spoon or a fork (that he wasn’t holding himself that is). While this was, of course, a perfectly normal thing – but difficult despite its normalcy. It was a bit sad that he would not eat some of his favorite foods, like yogurt, ricotta, or applesauce. He had not yet mastered the use of a spoon and although he could use a fork, he preferred to spear food and then wave the fork around until the food flew off across the room. So Cian using untensils was, sadly, not an option. After having several great conversations with other parents about different parenting philosophies we decided to not turn this into a food battle (I figured I would lose anyways…
) and feed him a well-balanced diet of foods that he could eat with his fingers. That turned out to be rather tricky in practice, though! For instance, it was a bit challenging to feed him enough protein during the day. He would eat meat and at the same time were trying to drastically scale back our food budget. So buying him “Quorn” (which he LOVES) wasn’t an option. Lentils don’t really make great finger foods! Thankfully he is open to trying new foods, so I broke out the cookbooks and he got to try such new foods as falafel and polenta slices! He was barely tolerant of the falafel but gobbled up the polenta. I ended up feeding it to him every morning for breakfast! It turned out to be a very good thing that we didn’t choose to fight over him demanding to self-feed, because he has now decided that being fed from a spoon or fork isn’t so bad after all! I’m sure had we tried to push the issue we would still be battling it out! But the great news is that Cian is now back to enjoying yogurt and applesauce as well as now discovering new favorites such as chicken with dumplings and lentil soup (he has also decided that meat isn’t that bad tasting).

I could leave for a second and come back to a diaper-less baby

I'm starving Mom!

If I could just get a little higher!

MMMmmm birthday cake!

Post-birthday-cake sugar crash

Reading to himself on the way to Oregon

At the Oregon zoo with Dad

Giving Grandma Janette some love

Celebrating after demolishing an entire roll of paper towels

Warming up after taking a dive into the ocean at Cannon Beach, Oregon

Helping Uncle Jimmy and Cousin David build a sandcastle

Enjoying a Burger Ville shake like a true Pacific Northwesterner!

Getting some kitty love

On a hike in the Wasatch National Forest

Keeping Steve company by the campfire

Drawing with Dad

Sweeping for Mom!































































